90 Minutes in the Morning

There’s a popular weight loss book titled “8 Minutes in the Morning.” The book provides easy exercises you can do that will make a positive change in your health and fitness. The number one excuse people use for not exercising is “lack of time.” Who doesn’t have 8 minutes?

“Not enough time” is also a common reason people give for not marketing themselves or their business properly, and for not taking advantage of all the networking tools available today. (The other reason is not being tech-savvy, which we will address later).

I haven’t managed to get my social networking down to eight minutes, but through effective time management techniques, speed-reading, and a very targeted plan, I can get a lot accomplished in just an hour-and-a-half at the start of my day. If you can find a way to incorporate your morning exercises into your Web surfing, let me know!

So, how do I do it?

First, I check my e-mail, possibly using this to compile the rest of my to-do list. Then I visit three forums and make the rounds of my favorite SM sites, including Twitter, Plurk, Facebook and Myspace. By visiting these sites, and these sites *only*, I keep myself from getting bogged down in mindless surfing. If a link or a forum thread catches my attention, I click on it, read and comment. There are others I want to add to the list, including LinkedIn, but I’m still new to this and don’t want to overwhelm myself yet!

One habit I fell into previously is, after making my rounds, I’d start back at home base and check my e-mail again. It was an endless cycle and before I knew it, I’d have five conversations going on five different sites, but no real work accomplished. Don’t do this! Check a site, and move on! If you really feel a need, you can make your rounds again in the evening, and I definitely recommend checking e-mail at least one more time during the day, preferably after lunch.

Timothy Ferriss, author of the Four-Hour Workweek, recommends checking e-mail and voice mail once at noon and once at 4 PM. But I can’t start my morning without two things: Strong coffee and e-mail.

Before I get started on my assignments for the day, I visit blogs. I don’t visit every one that I like every single day, but I try not to get backed up, either. Choose a selection of blogs to check on Mondays, then different ones on Tuesdays, and again on Wednesday. Rotate every three or four days… once a week isn’t enough and you’ll find yourself getting backed up. When you read, comment on at least one post from each blogger, then and there.

If you’re like me, you’re a “response” junkie and need to find out when people comment on your comments. Set up a separate e-mail address, and enter that address when blogs ask for an e-mail to notify you when someone has replied to your comment. You can also use this e-mail on forums and social networking sites, to notify you when you have private messages, comments, or someone has replied to a certain thread. Check this e-mail address once in the morning, and, if you really can’t wait, again at lunch. That’s it. Do not check it compulsively. If there’s something you want to reply to, do it and move on.

Finally, set up a separate e-mail account for newsletters. Check this once or twice a week, and take some time when you really need a break to sit back and enjoy your favorite newsletters.

By keeping separate e-mails, I find I never miss anything important (like an assignment from an editor) and can check “non-time-sensitive” information at my own leisure, without feeling pressure over having 2,564 unread messages in my mailbox.

This may sound like it’s very regimented, taking a lot of the fun of following link-after-link in that way Web junkies love. Take time to do that, but don’t take the time out of your workday. Enjoy that for what it is: time-wasting fun. In the morning, you have a goal to accomplish--to stay in touch with your network.

Don’t forget, however…social networking can be superficial, with people posting tweets and plurks and comments. If you have extra time when you’re done with your rounds, strike up a conversation with someone in your network. Share ideas. Participate in a chat. They will certainly understand when your 90 minutes (or 60, or however many you decide you need) is up and you say that you have to get to work.

I love SM sites for many reasons, but I also crave deeper connections with my, well…connections. After all, we do this because we love people (and to make money, yeah… but we’d find another way to do that if we didn’t love people!) Use tweets to stay in touch day-to-day, but don’t neglect the relationships behind those short notes.

"Use As Many Microphones As Possible..."

This guy sums up, in just under 10 minutes, everything I've been thinking for the past year.

There's some harsh language in it, but he speaks the truth.

And yes, it's Chris Brogan again! I just hope I'm not coming off as stalker-ish to him.

WOM, WAHMs and Networking Secrets

I'm not a networking guru, not by a long shot. Someone at AW has listed her location as, "at the feet of my betters," and that is how I feel when it comes to social networking both online and in person.

One of those "betters" is Jennifer Gniadecki. She is the author of Non-Toxic Networking, a must-read for work-at-home entrepreneurs, small business owners and anyone who wants to achieve greater success in their field. I had the pleasure of talking to Jennifer for about an hour the other day... and I realized her 'networking secret.' She is genuinely a nice person. She's a lot of fun, with a great joie de vivre, is refreshingly honest, sincere and *real.* After 30 minutes on the phone (we'd "met" in a chat room once before), I felt like we'd been friends for years. I really had to force myself to hang up the phone and get some more work done.

Now, if that's the secret to networking, it can't be faked. And I think that IS at least one of the keys: You have to genuinely like people. Then again, why work in a networking-intensive field if you don't like people?

Another woman I am lucky enough to learn from every day is Erika-Marie Geiss, Editor-in-Chief and publisher of www.thewahmmagazine.com. Incidentally, that's a "double m" in the URL, as in "hot momma!"

In many ways, Erika embodies the spirit of "JHS" (Just Hit Send: The freelance writer's version of "Just Do It"). Late at night, when her toddler is asleep, this hard-working WAHM sends out queries, press releases and interview requests to big-name markets and well-known celebrities in the work-at-home and social networking field. It has already resulted in some great press for her content-driven digital publication devoted to the work-at-home industry, and will result in some fantastic coverage to appear in TWM in the future.

In a lot of ways, it's appropriate that Erika "introduced" me (in a social networking way--we've yet to meet, even online, or do more than trade Tweets on Twitter) to Chris Brogan, social networking king.

And, in one of those odd coincidences, which really hammers home the massive connectivity of the Web, Chris Brogan recently blogged about The Word of Mouth Manual: Volume II, a book that I am also signed on to buzz about as a BzzAgent.

I admit, I've been so busy immersing myself in this wide world of social marketing lately, that I've only skimmed The WOM Manual. I encourage you to download your own free copy (from Brogan's site, or any other number of places), and post your opinions here. It will help me file some buzz reports and, it may just inspire me to sit down and finish reading it. (I admit, this is probably the laziest way to generate word of mouth: "I heard of this thing. Read it and tell me what YOU think.") I will fulfill my BzzAgent duties and finish reading the book this weekend and post a review by next week. But I really would like to hear what you have to say about it, too! :)

There is a lot more I want to say about WOM, WAHMs and Networking Secrets but this blog is quite long enough. Please drop by tomorrow when I tell you how I've gotten my SM surfing down to two effective, targeted hours a day.

Thanks for reading!

Disclaimer: I recently joined the Non-Toxic Networking affiliate program, which means I make a small percentage of money from sales of the book that come from this site. That does not make my assessment any less valid. If I'm going to be using WOM to promote products that have value, created by people I like, what's the harm in adding a few dollars to my Paypal account along the way. No one that I know is getting rich off these affiliate programs... I simply urge you to check out the sample chapter posted on Jennifer's Web site and make your own buying decision.

"How to Promote Your Business In Trade Magazines"

I will be at the Business & Learning Work-at-Home Expo again today, with a presentation at 1:30 PM for small business owners and freelance writers alike. Learn how to "Promote Your Business in Trade Magazines."

One of the ways to approach trade magazines is with a Query Letter. Since this information is helpful to freelance writers (that is, visitors to my blog) as well as business owners, I thought I would share it here, as well.

QUERY LETTER RESOURCES

**Send an email to DawnAllcot@gmail.com and I will send you my FREE article on how to write a query letter.**