Saturday, April 12, 2008

Why Blog?

In my last blog post, way back in February, I promised a blog every few days for the month of March. How about... None? The truth is, once my energy started to come back, I had fallen so far behind on my paying freelance work, I had no time for blogging and other "fun" writing pursuits. Clients have to come first.

Which brings me to an important question. If it's the first task to get dropped when life gets busy, why blog at all?

I know why many other people blog: to promote their name or their company, to make money through Adsense or another earn-per-click program, or simply to feed their ego and have people read their work. Still other bloggers blog "for themselves," to share their thoughts and feelings with the world in a way that is free of an editor's intervention, advertiser interests or pesky publication guidelines.

But why do I blog? I haven't yet gotten to the point where any of my blogs are doing a great job promoting my brand, so it's not for self-promotion. Yes, I find blogging fun, but no more or less fun than writing a feature story for a paintball magazine.

I'm going to be brutally honest. I blog for attention. I thrive on comments and feedback. I'm not an "attention-whore" in real life, and, in fact, shy away from being the center of. But when someone makes a comment, or links back to my blog with the comment "great post," that small thing makes my day. That's why I blog.

Now, where do I blog?

I just launched a new one as a tie-in to RECON, the Magazine of Woods Paintball. Check out RECON, the Blog. I also have guest bloggers, some big names in the industry, helping out there sporadically.

And, as referenced recently in the comments section here, I blog at Miss Michele's Tarot, where I offer a variety of free and reasonably-priced tarot readings for my visitors.

I also blog, as I mentioned earlier, at Babies Online. I love the unique perspectives offered at this site from a variety of moms and pregnant women. I don't always agree with the posts, but I always find them thought-provoking and informative. Check it out.

Oh, and please leave a comment so I know you were there!

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Writing and Researching for Life

I write in so many diverse industries, most articles give me a chance to learn something new--but not anything I can apply to my life.

It's great when I get to write about topics that I would research even if I wasn't being paid to do so! That's why I feel truly blessed to have landed a spot as a blogger over at Babies Online. I will be writing a pregnancy diary, filled with tips and advice for expecting moms.

I've also been a guest blogger at Family Resource, thanks to the lovely and talented Julie Fletcher.

In addition to all this research about pregnancy, I also did a bit of research for after the baby is born. You'll see my article, "Baby On Board: How to run an at-home business with an infant in tow" in the latest issue of TheWAHMmagazine, coming out March 5.

Between new blogging gigs, trade magazine assignments, and ongoing work for RECON, I've sorely neglected this blog.

I'm going to get on a twice a week schedule of some sort for March. It is one of my JHS goals!

Thursday, January 31, 2008

Call Me "Catalyst"

A friend of mine once said he wanted his business cards to read "Catalyst" as his title.

This resonates with me. Many times, my greatest success occurs when I bring other people together, then step back and let the sparks fly. Sometimes I reap rewards myself, but often, the reward comes in watching friends achieve amazing things based on connections I expedited.

I don't want to say, "Oh, look at me!" or, "They never would have done this without me." Fate has a way of bringing people together when they can help each other. But it's nice to know I can help make the process go smoothly sometimes.

This happened to me yesterday (a few times!) and while I didn't get a lot of work done, I did accomplish significant "networking" in two different circles, in three different circumstances.

I can't reveal the details just yet (yes, yes, more secrets...) but one phone call I made yesterday might result in some very strong marketing connections for three other women. And me? I'll get to sell a few stories about it.

I'm happy with that.

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Working Through Challenges

Every writer has faced situations which made it hard for them to concentrate. People face this in 9-to-5 jobs, as well, and deal with it in one of three ways:

Close their office door, play solitaire all day and hope they don't get caught or;

Suck it up and get their work done or;

Ask the boss if they can go home.

The third will work if you have a valid reason: illness, death in the family, etc. "It's raining," is not usually a reason to request PTO.

Writers face these same challenges, great and small, and to some degree, have the same options. The major difference is we can surf the web or play solitaire all day and remain accountable only to ourselves. And we don't have to ask permission to call it quits. That only makes the temptation to do so greater.

So which is the right choice?

In most cases, I'm a staunch advocate for number 2.

"A writer writes, everyday." "How will others take your job seriously if you don't?" Pick your cliche to describe that frame of mind that says "I am a real writer."

Jenn Hollowell noted what a gray, dismal dreary day it is. She decided she's going to close all the blinds, turn on all the lights, and pretend it's night time in order to get some work done. If what you're facing that's keeping you from working isn't that bad, or you have an important deadline, do whatever it takes and get it done.

Option number 1 is really just fooling yourself. You could say you're "searching for markets" or "checking up on the competition" or simply "stirring the creative pot" as you read 3 weeks worth of blogs and play 6 Degrees of Separation on Wikipedia, don't fool yourself. Accept that you've decided to take some time off, and enjoy your surfing or chatting or Internet poker guilt free. Put aside the notion that you "should be" doing something else. If you're going to goof-off, at least enjoy it!

At that point, also ask yourself if you could be more productive with the computer off.

It might just make sense to call it quits for the day and begin refreshed tomorrow.
Deadlines will be met, work will get done. When it's crunch time, you always make it happen.

Parkinson's Law states, "Work expands to fill the time available." If you only have one day to finish that article, you'll finish it.

If you had two days... well, you'd have taken both. Might as well enjoy the other day, instead.

How do you handle circumstances that make it hard for you to write?

Sunday, January 27, 2008

JHS

I want to talk about a certain feeling I believe all writers get. It's that knot in the pit of your stomach after you "hit send" on an article or query, before you hear back from the editor.

You second guess yourself: Did I spell my source's name right? Did I spell the editor's name right? Will she hate it? Love it? Did I forget anything? Did I include the attachment?!

The best method to get past this feeling is to start work on your next project--immediately!

And remember, you're not alone.

In fact, an entire community of writers over at AWexists to support writers getting over that fear of "just hitting send."

Hence the odd acronym, JHS. No, it's not Junior High School, or Jumping Hairy Snakes... It's that phrase that sets successful writers about from the wanna-be schlubs. It's the ability to "Just Hit Send," then put aside those feelings and get ready to JHS again...and again...and again.

Friday, January 25, 2008

RWAAARRR....

Plaid Earthworm , one of my favorite people in the writing community, has tagged me with a Meme. This is a fun one, because it comes with an Award. It's called "Roar for Powerful Words." In a fit of writerly "lack of self-esteem," I let myself get a bit down because this meme traveled three-quarters of the way around the AW writers' community without hitting me. Of course I was being silly, but Plaid, thank you! It really means a lot to me.

In this meme, you must blog about three things that create good, powerful writing. Let's see if I can come up with some tips that haven't been done to death.

1). Learn the basics!
This seems so obvious, but many writers want to pursue their goal of getting published before they've learned the mechanics of good grammar, tight writing, how and when to incorporate quotes, what makes a good lead, etc.

Unlike talent, tenacity and persistence, the basics *can* be taught. Writing is a competitive field and writers have enough factors working against their success. Do yourself a favor and learn the basics first. You wouldn't try to be a mechanic if you didn't know how to use a wrench, would you?

Grammar, flow, pacing, word usage, interview skills, etc. are a writer's *tools*. With these tools, we can create great, publishable work. You may have a great story to tell, but without the basic storytelling tools in place, no editor will take you seriously. (Unless you're a big name star or a strongly-established expert in your field--then, your name is worth more than your abilities and an editor *will* fix your work. But that's not your "average person" I'm talking about).

Some writers say, "Fixing my grammar is the editor's job."

No, it's not.

There are too many writers out there who know how to use the basic tools of the trade. An editor will hire them, instead, because those writers make the editor's job easier.

It is also not an editor's job to teach you these skills. There are plenty of resources available. Start with Strunk & White's Elements of Style. Read William Zissner's On Writing Well. If those aren't sinking in, start with a basic grammar book or take a course.

Good writing begins with the basics.

2). Observe and absorb.

Ideas are all around us. A good writer swallows these ideas, savoring every taste, like a ravenous lion. Pay attention to the way people talk, how they respond to certain stimulus, how they act in one situation or another. People-watch. Eavesdrop. Listen.

As a writer who writes a lot of interview-based features, I am often tempted to "space out" during interviews, especially when I know my recorder is catching it all. Don't.

Focus on what your subject is saying, so you don't miss the perfect follow-up question. Besides, people are that much more forthcoming when they know you're paying attention and are truly interested in what they have to say.

3). I keep wanting to slant these tips toward "successful writing" rather than "good writing." In other words, I want to show the reader how to make money as a writer. I'm going to give in to that temptation with my third tip: Be easy to work with.

This encompasses many aspects of freelance writing. Knowing how to follow writer's guidelines makes you easy to work with. Happily re-writing when an editor requests it (within reason, of course) makes you easy to work with. Not squawking when an editor alters your precious prose, but, instead, studying what he did so you can improve your work with that publication next time, makes you an editor's dream. Delivering the story you pitched in your query makes it likely the editor will hire you next time.

Oh, and, finally... just being a friendly, nice person, with a kind word for your editor every now and then, will set you apart. All other factors being equal, an editor is more likely to hire the writer she enjoys working with than the arrogant know-it-all or even the stick-in=the-mud writer who has skill but less personality than a wet rag. That's life.

I'd like to pass this meme and Award on to five writers who regularly practice all three of these tips, but, quite honestly, don't feel like spending an hour checking to see if my choices have already been tagged.

If you are reading this and somehow have been passed by, please consider yourself tagged!

On Failure, Success and the Writing Life (AW Blog Chain Post)

People often ask writers where we get our ideas. For me, finding ideas has never been a problem—it’s deciding which ideas to pursue that creates the challenge.

This entry is part of an AW blog chain, in which the blogger has to build upon one of the topics mentioned in the previous blog.

Razib, over at Techtainment, has given me (and the other bloggers in the chain) so much to think about, I simply don’t know which path to take.

This happens when I’m writing feature articles for magazines, too. I may have three strong leads, three different themes, if you will, and the challenge lies in choosing the best, most interesting way to tell the story. Once I decide on the overall gist of the piece, the words flow easily to the article’s conclusion. It’s that all-important lead that can make or break a project.

Some of the topics Razib hit upon were: failure, success, persistence, heroes, spousal support, and making a living as a professional blogger. Razib gets a phenomenal number of hits on his sites, and is making a real living through blogging.

I couldn’t imagine taking that career path, but I have a few projects in the works that will supplement my other writing income through blogs, and a few opportunities to learn more about how to make money as a blogger. I’m going to grasp these opportunities with both hands. After all, what do I have to lose?

Fear of failure has never stopped me from doing anything. My personal demon is fear of success. What if I get so good that people expect more from me, and I’m forced to step outside my comfort zone to pursue new challenges? What if I achieve my goals and can’t decide where to go from there?

Or worse… what if I make my dreams come true and realize it wasn’t all I expected it to be? What if I get where I want to be and I’m still not happy?

I’m making a full-time living as a freelance writer – in an area of the country with a very high cost of living. Granted, I couldn’t do it without my husband’s support, medical benefits and job security. But I’m doing it. And making more than I ever made working for someone else as a magazine editor.

Some days, it’s not all it’s cracked up to be. Work comes in spurts – you either have more than you can sanely handle, or you’re trolling the job markets wondering if anyone will ever hire you again. A freelancer’s bank account follows similar cycles.

Success requires discipline, persistence, tenacity, and a healthy dose of self-esteem to keep you going during those down times. You have to realize that your work has value and you’re worth every dollar you’re making. Otherwise, your career is dead when you hit your first rough patch (and there will be rough patches!)

Even when things are going well, however, sometimes it’s just…not… fun. It’s work. That’s why we get paid to do it.

However, as “work” goes, writing as a vocation has more good days than bad, is fun more often than not. And the thrill of seeing my name in print—or on a check—outweighs any drawbacks.

On those hard days, it’s important to remember that living the life of a full-time freelance writer is the chance to live a dream. I can honestly say there is not one thing about my life I want to change. That’s a great place to be.

If you’re reading this, I invite you to kick me when I forget that! ;) And, if you stay tuned to these pages, I will do everything I can to show you how I did it so that you can do it, too.

Far more than just fulfilling the requirements of a blog chain, I think this post has (finally) given me some direction for this blog!

Since this chain may lead to the most readers I’ve ever had here, tell me: what sort of writing tips, advice and content do you want to see?

Now, I respectfully pass this chain on to Polenth's Quill.

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